I don't read much but the list long when I did and boring
会勾起我性欲的是:
don't even know anymore
会浇灭我性欲的是:
No free time, distance, no tested clean card, No understanding of boundaries/safe word. Disdain of sex workers. Hurtful jokes about dick. Hatred of fluids in all their forms. Porno level screaming. Fake orgasms. Screams if even air goes near ass. Terrible life altering handjobs. Major out of control baggage. Too thin. Any mental connection between $$$ and sex. Being told about their husband.